I’m not much for pink and red and hearts and froo froo ticky tacky romance, and I’ve never been a fan of Valentine’s Day. I’m of the love every day philosophy. There’s so much pressure that you have to do something to proclaim your love on Valentine’s day, and the idea that if you do something grand enough it will make up for other inadequacies.
But, there should be love every day. It’s the small gestures of kindness that truly add up. I’m a practical girl, looking for a competent companion to share the happiness and love in each day. I’m also a skeptic and a cynic when it comes to love, yet I keep on searching for it. As I read in one astrology book I think I have the Gemini curse of continually searching for my other half that will complement me and make my life complete. However, I know that in order to be truly happy, I need to be completely comfortable with just being me.
I’ll close with an inspirational love story for all the single ladies-
A couple of summers ago I was talking to a woman at the Atlantic (the best place to get a cosmo on the island) about traveling. She had recently been to Turkey and went on a tour to an underground cave city of women. Through a translator she asked them how they find husbands in the caves. And one woman responded, “He will find me.” So, it has become my mantra. “He will find me.” My mantra and my advice for every single woman I meet who is fretting about finding a man, try not to worry about finding a soul mate, because he will find you.
Wishing the world peace, love, and happiness each and every day!
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